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The story of a recovering addict
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3 years agoon
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MASERU – BEFORE getting hooked on alcohol and drugs, Katleho Ntobo would go about his daily routines such as school and work without any hassles. That changed the moment he got addicted to alcohol.
“My life would come to a standstill after just one bottle of beer. I would toss away all the plans I had,” said Ntobo, a recovered addict. He started using substances when he was just 13 years old and in Form A.
“I soon became addicted to cigarettes, alcohol and dagga. Sometimes I would resort to glue and petrol just to get high,” he recalled. The 26-year-old said it took a while for him to realise the damaging effect of his addiction.
“My admission to having a problem was the fi rst step to recovery, something most people are in denial of,” he said. He said the addiction disrupted his personal life.
“I failed to manage my fi nances, I would wake up with a hangover almost every day, affecting my school performance and later on my work,” he said, recalling how it also affected
his love life.
“I couldn’t give my partner the attention she deserved because most of the time I would be drinking or taking drugs. I wasn’t productive at work. The hangover wouldn’ allow me to attend to clients.”
Ntobo said because of his addiction, relations with people close to him, including his siblings and parents, turned sour due to constant disputes.
“They were no longer happy to see me as I would sometimes steal money meant for household needs to buy drugs and alcohol. My life became such a mess that at some point I knew I needed to admit that I had become an addict,” he said.
Based in Khubetsoana, Ntobo says he is trying to maintain his recovery.
“I feel very well currently and I am grateful that I managed to stop taking substances.”
“Every day I give gratitude that I am no longer in unnecessary debts, I no longer wake up with hangovers and I am no longer worried about what I will drink the next day. My life has become awesome,” he said, with a huge grin. He said drugs stole a lot from him.
“The fi nancial value is immeasurable. They stole a lot of my time, money, and everything. I can’t even estimate because most of the money I had ended up buying drugs or alcohol.”
He said his life was exciting and he now had very few worries before he became addicted to drugs.
“I was still a child and it was a normal childhood just like any other kid’s life.” Growing up, people using alcohol and drugs were viewed as cool hence he started using the drugs as well for recreation.
“I was charmed by people who smoked.” One day out of the blue, he said he decided to buy a bottle of beer and smoke.
“I didn’t even know how to smoke but I bought the stuff anyway as I wanted to feel what everyone was feeling. And I loved the taste of alcohol, while I wasted the cigarettes as I didn’t know how to use them. I only learnt later after being taught by people whom I saw as my role models,” he said.
“I succumbed to peer pressure because people close to me were also using drugs so I couldn’t miss out,” he said. The turning point, he says, was when he drank almost his entire salary on a single
night.
“In my life bad things were happening as I would have disputes with my boss and parents. I would tell myself that ‘this is the last time I am using’ but the following day I would start again.
“But the last moment was when I drank all my salary. I had M4 000 only to wake up with less than M100 that I even used to buy more beer as I had a hangover.”
“It was indeed an eye opener for me. I sat down and did self-introspection to fi nd the root cause of my drug and alcohol problem. I went for two days without taking drugs and that’s when I planned for my recovery; all the necessary steps that would help me recover and indeed it worked,” he said cheerfully.
Ntobo described it as the best decision he took as he is now living his dream.
“Life is now awesome without unnecessary stress.” He said he successfully stopped using drugs in 2014 and kicked out alcohol in 2018.
He says daily, one of the many principles he uses is striving to avoid taking the first drug or drink to maintain his sobriety.
“I have developed my own programme with a series of steps to help me stay intact and it is indeed helping me to face life head on without using the drugs,” he said. Ntobo said he lost time, good friends, opportunities, spiritual relationships, jobs, integrity and money due to substance abuse.
“Realising I had no money and worthwhile relationships and a job was my rock bottom. thepost News June 9 – 15 2022 11 addict I was in debt and had no one to turn to,” he said.
He then decided to write a book titled “Secrets of a Recovering Addict” which focuses on issues around alcohol and drug abuse. It was written and published in 2021. The book is about his own and other people’s addiction and recovery experiences. It gives an outline of strategies that one can employ to abstain from alcohol and drugs and live a happy and free life.
“We often start drinking alcohol and using drugs as a temporary means of escape from the harsh realities of the world. However as time progresses, the tables turn. What used to be a time of fun and companionship develops into a time of suffering, sorrow and distress. Instead of fun, we get heartbreaks, empty pockets, broken families, (poor) health, jail time and debts,” said Ntobo.
“I went to everyone I wronged during those times to apologise and rekindle my relationships.” On writing the book, Ntobo said he did it to help others still struggling with addiction.
“I needed to do something to help addicts as most of them want to stop but don’t know where to start. Some want to try but fail so I hope this book will be their breakthrough,” said Ntobo, adding that the country’s major challenge was that youths have easy access to alcohol and drugs.
“It’s no longer just about alcohol, marijuana and cigarettes. The country is now awash with much stronger, more addictive and very much harder to recover from substances such as khat and crystal methamphetamine. They are being bought like sweets.”
‘Mapule Motsopa
MASERU
KNORX Molelle’s appointment as the Director General of the Directorate on Corruption and Economic Offences (DCEO) in February 2023 could have been illegal.
The Law Society of Lesotho has told Prime Minister Sam Matekane that Molelle was appointed without being admitted as a legal practitioner in Lesotho, as required by law.
The society claims the information came from a whistleblower on January 2 and was corroborated by its roll of legal practitioners in Lesotho.
The society says the appointment violates section 4 of the Prevention of Corruption and Economic Offences Act 1999 which states that a person shall not be appointed as the DCEO director general unless they have been admitted as a legal practitioner in terms of the Legal Practitioners Act.
In the letter, Advocate Ithabeleng Phamotse, the society’s secretary, tells Matekane that this requirement “is not a mere procedural formality but a substantive qualification essential to the lawful appointment of the Director General”.
“The absence of such qualification fatally impairs the appointment ab initio, rendering it null and void from the outset,” Advocate Phamotse says in the letter written on Tuesday.
The society argues that if left unaddressed the illegality undermines the credibility, effectiveness and legality of the DCEO’s operations and exposes the kingdom to serious risks, including challenges to the lawfulness of decisions and actions made by Molelle.
“Should it be confirmed that the appointment was made in contravention of the mandatory legal requirements,” Advocate Phamotse said, “we respectfully urge you to take immediate corrective action to rectify this glaring irregularity”.
Advocate Phamotse tells the prime minister that if the appointment is not corrected, the society would be “left with no alternative but to institute legal proceedings to protect the interests of justice and uphold the rule of law in Lesotho”.
“We trust that you will accord this matter your highest priority and act decisively to avert further damage to the integrity of our governance structures.”
The Prime Minister’s spokesman, Thapelo Mabote, said they received the letter but Matekane had not yet read it yesterday.
Matekane is on leave and is expected back in the office on January 14.
Questions over the validity of his appointment come as Molelle is being haunted by the damaging audio clips that were leaked last week.
The clips were clandestinely recorded by Basotho National Party leader, Machesetsa Mofomobe.
In some of the clips, Molelle appears to be describing Matekane and his deputy Justice Nthomeng Majara as idiots. He also appears to be calling Law Minister Richard Ramoeletsi a devil.
In other clips, he seems to be discussing cases. thepost has not independently verified the authenticity of the audio clips.
Staff Reporter
MASERU
THE government has increased the salaries for traditional leaders by a massive 88.5 percent.
This means that a village chief not appointed by a gazette will now earn M3 001 a month, up from the previous salary of M1 592. That means village chiefs will now earn an extra M1 409 per month.
A village chief, or headman, appointed by a gazette has moved from M1 966 to M3 567 per month.
Above a village chief is one with jurisdiction over a small cluster of villages, a category three chief, who now moves from M3 768 to M5 181 per month.
A category four chief, known as ward chief, has moved from M4 455 per month to M7 993.
The category five chief, who reports directly to a principal chief, will now earn M10 674, up from M9 939 per month.
There is no increment for principal chiefs.
The government says the budget for chiefs’ salaries has moved from M129.4 million to M208.3 million annually.
The hike follows a series of discussions between the Lesotho Workers Association, representing the chiefs, and the Ministry of Local Government and Chieftainship.
The revised salaries will be implemented with effect from April 1, 2025.
According to the settlement agreement, a discussion about raising the lowest salary of M6 000 for the lowest-ranking chiefs will be revisited in October 2025.
Chiefs who spoke to thepost have expressed satisfaction with the hike, saying it will significantly improve their lives.
Chief Mopeli Matsoso of Ha-Tikoe in Maseru said his previous salary of M1 500 per month would now be doubled, which would improve his life and help provide smoother services to the community.
He stressed that they used to close the offices while going out looking for jobs to compensate for their little salaries.
“Now the people will get smoother services,” Chief Matsoso said.
“The offices will forever be open,” he said.
Chief Matsoso said the salary hike will also serve as a motivation for other chiefs.
Chief Tumo Majara of Liboping, Mokhethoaneng, also expressed his gratitude.
Chief Majara acknowledge the positive impact the salary review would have, especially as a new officeholder.
“I guess we are all happy, that review will help a lot,” he said.
The Principal Chief of Thaba-Bosiu, Khoabane Theko, said the salary increase of chief is a welcome move by the government.
“I’m yet to study how the new salary structure looks like. But I welcome it as a good move by the government,”Chief Theko said.
Nkheli Liphoto
MASERU
Motlatsi Maqelepo, the embattled Basotho Action Party (BAP) deputy leader and Tello Kibane, who was the party chairman, have rejected their suspension from the party arguing it was legally flawed.
The BAP’s central executive committee on Tuesday suspended Maqelepo for seven years and Kibane for five years. The suspensions became effective on the same day.
The party’s disciplinary committee which met last Wednesday had recommended an expulsion for the two but that decision was rejected with the committee pushing for a lengthy suspension.
Maqelepo’s suspension will end on January 7, 2032 while Kibane’s will run until January 7, 2030.
Their suspension letters from the BAP deputy secretary general Victoria Qheku, say they should not participate in any of the party’s activities.
“In effect, you are relieved of your responsibility as a CEC member and BAP deputy leader,” Maqelepo was told in the letter.
“You were found guilty by default on all charges and the committee recommended your immediate dismissal from the party,” the letter reads.
On Kibane, the verdict states that the committee decided to mitigate the recommended sanction by reducing his suspension to five years.
“In the gravity of the charges, the suspension affects your membership in the BAP parliamentary caucus from which you are removed as a chairman.”
They were suspended in absentia after they refused to attend the disciplinary hearing, which they said was illegal.
In response to the suspension, Maqelepo wrote a letter addressing the BAP members in general, defying the committee’s decision to suspend them.
He has called for a special conference, appealing to party constituencies to push for it, citing the ongoing internal fight that includes the leadership’s decision to withdraw the BAP from the coalition government.
Maqelepo also said the central executive committee is illegally in a campaign to dissolve committees in the constituencies and replace them with stooges.
He reminded the members that there is a court case pending in the High Court seeking an interdiction to charge them in the party’s structures without approval of the special conference that he is calling.
He said the party leadership should have awaited the outcome of the case before proceeding with any disciplinary action.
“The party that is led by a professor of law continues to do dismissals despite the issue being taken to the courts,” Maqelepo said.
The party leader, Professor Nqosa Mahao, is a distinguished professor of law.
Maqelepo said they would write the central executive committee rejecting its decision to suspend them, saying they will continue taking part in party activities.
He said their fate in the party is in the hands of the special conference.
He appealed to all the party constituencies to continue writing letters demanding the special conference.
Both Maqelepo and Kibane received letters on November 28 last year inviting them to show cause why they should not be suspended pending their hearing.
They both responded on the following day refusing to attend.
Maqelepo, Kibane, Hilda Van Rooyen, and ’Mamoipone Senauoane are accused of supporting a move to remove Professor Mahao from his ministerial position last year.
They were part of the BAP members who asked Prime Minister Sam Matekane to fire Professor Mahao, who at the same time was pushing for the reshuffling of Tankiso Phapano, the principal secretary for the Ministry of Energy.
When Matekane ignored Professor Mahao’s demands, the latter withdrew the BAP from the coalition government much to the fierce resistance of the party’s four MPs.
Maqelepo started touting members from constituencies to call for a special conference to reverse Professor Mahao and the central executive committee’s decision.
The central executive committee issued a circular stopping Maqelepo’s rallies but he continued, with the support of the other MPs.
In the BAP caucus of six MPs, it is only Professor Mahao and ’Manyaneso Taole who are supporting the withdrawal from the government.
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